As your elderly parent gets older, he or she may need more attention from you. Whether you have siblings or are an only child, the whole family’s mental wellbeing can be impacted by the quality of your relationships with one another. The staff at Home Care Assistance, a leading provider of home care, Chandler families can count on, has a few tips on how to maintain a positive relationship with your elderly loved one.
Stay in touch with your loved one as often as you can. Don’t wait for a holiday or birthday to call or visit. Especially check in during a storm, heat wave, or a natural disaster situation. Even talking just a few minutes will let him or her know you care and are available to help if needed.
Remember your loved one is a major tie to your past, and let him or her talk about memories. Record your loved one’s voice when he or she tells stories and you will never regret having these stories to retell to your own children.
Your loved one may not always be able to move at the pace you are used to. Give him or her a little extratime to get ready and help in any way you can. Try not to interrupt if you have already heard a particular story your loved one is telling. Seniors are often forgetful so bear with your loved one and listen again.
Go Out Together
Many seniors are either housebound or in a nursing home. One of the nicest things you can do is take your parent out for the day. Go shopping, to a restaurant, or on a ride through the countryside. You may be surprised about the things you discover about each other on a short road trip.
The most important way to keep a positive relationship with your loved one is to show you care in any way you can. He or she may need assistance around the house, and coming by to help when possible can be a great way to build your relationship. However, your other responsibilities may prevent you from being there as much as you’d like,and enlisting an in-home caregiver is one way to show your loved one you care. For hourly or live-in care Chandler families trust, turn to Home Care Assistance. Our caregivers can provide companionship your loved one may need while taking care of daily tasks around the house. For more information, call one of our friendly Care Managers at (480) 448-6215 to schedule a free in-home consultation.